Bored Girls Are Horny Girls

When you spend enough time using online dating apps, you start to see patterns arise from all the data. One interesting pattern that I noticed was that bored girls are often horny girls and busy girls are often a waste of time. When you really think about it though, this is true for both sexes. The old proverb, “Idle hands are the devil’s workshop” is very accurate. People think about sex the most when they are relaxed and have a lot of free time and they think about it the least when they are busy, tired, stressed, and have a lot of work to do.

 

Guess which girls are the horniest and make the best fuck buddies? The ones that live a relaxed lifestyle and don’t pack their days full of bullshit activities.

 

Guess which girls are the least horny? The ones that are always busy doing something. Makes you kind of rethink dating a workaholic huh?

 

SUMMER VS WINTER

I always suspected that summer would be the best time to get laid. The sun is out, the weather is warm , people should be horny right? Uh, not exactly. Girls are busy doing stuff like traveling, camping, going to festivals, hiking, BBQing, playing beach volleyball, and a million other things. That means you have to compete with all that bullshit if you want to get laid. You can still get laid, but there will be fewer horny girls sitting at home, waiting for you to hit them up and provide some excitement.

 

The fall and winter months, on the other hand, were always prime time in my neck of the woods. During the colder months is when you’ll find a lot more girls with not so many distractions. You’ll find girls just chilling out at home with some wine, waiting for you to invite them over.

 

If it’s in the evening and she sounds bored, invite her over for dinner and movies:

“Well Stephanie, I’m just about to get dinner ready and put a movie on, you’re welcome to bring the wine and join me :)”

This provides plenty of plausible deniability, so even if she’s not game at that moment you can still set up a date for another day.

 

BORED GIRLS AT THE BAR OR PARTY

Like I’ve discussed in my “How To Find DTF Girls At The Bar” article, the girls that look bored are often doing it on purpose to entice attractive guys to talk to them. Avoid the girls that are huddled together in deep conversation and focus on the girls that look like they’d rather be some place else. There’s a good chance that she’s not there to chat with her friends, she’s there to find a guy for the night.

 

WEEKDAY VS WEEKEND

People usually think Friday and Saturday are the best days to get laid, but unless you live downtown and close to all the night life, you would be wrong. Friday and Saturday are the days most girls hang out with their friends to be entertained and have fun, with sex being a low priority.

 

This is why advise guys avoid planning first dates on Friday or Saturday if you don’t live downtown or some place “exciting”. You will have a much higher flake rate on these days because you will be competing with all of her friends’ plans and when you do plan a date on a Friday or Saturday, the girls will usually have higher expectations:

“Uh, I don’t think I want to spend my Friday night getting frozen yogurt.”

Next!

The absolute best day to get laid is on lazy Sunday. I once triple booked a Sunday and got laid by all three, one after another. People don’t make exciting plans for Sunday, they relax from all the weekend festivities and get horny instead.

 

The next best days are Monday through Thursday – all of them being equally good. Even during the weekdays girls get bored and horny which is in stark contrast to Friday and Saturday where it’s all about fun and entertainment.

 

I also noticed this pattern in my casual relationships. Girls would more often contact me to get laid on days when they had a day off from work. This makes perfect sense because they had a nice relaxing day without stress and became more horny because of it.

 

CONCLUSION

If you are looking for girls that are DTF at the bar or online, look for girls that are bored. If you are dating a girl who is a workaholic, she will most likely not have a super high sex drive. You can either become a workaholic as well to match her lower sex drive or you can find a girl with more relaxed lifestyle. Your mind and body only have so much power. The more time and energy that is used for work, the less drive and energy you will have left for sex.

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