I’ve been going to the same gym for over 3 years and in that time you start to remember faces. One guy in particular stands out. He was big and ripped and obviously partook in the pharmaceuticals. He had his looks taken care of and style was current, so if you were to guess by looking at him, you would assume that he probably did pretty well with the ladies. I saw him working out with a hot girl that also uses the same gym and it wasn’t long before they were in a relationship. Fast forward 2 years, and I run into the same girl on a dating app. Things had ended and she was looking for a new dick in her life. I got her number and arranged a date.
While getting ready for the date, I remember thinking about whether he had dumped her or she had dumped him. It’s not really a big deal to me, but I prefer not to get into relationships with girls that have been dumped, since it feels like I’m settling for a girl that wasn’t good enough for another guy. Yeah, I know it’s kind of dick thing to do.
Anyway, I went into the date assuming that the guy probably ended up dumping her or cheating on her, since he seemed like a guy that would know his way around girls. The girl and I had a good time on the date and when the subject of her car came up, she mentions in passing that her ex burned down her last car. I couldn’t help but smile inside. Despite the outward appearance, her ex was just like 95% of the needy chumps out there that have no clue how women work. Only a guy who had no other sexual options would resort to burning down his ex girlfriend’s car. But this is what happens to most guys that end up snagging a hot girlfriend. Most of the guys you see with hot girlfriends, got there by being in the right place at the right time and they have no way of replicating the process, so when the girl decides to leave, their whole world flips upside down. They know deep down that it’s unlikely that they’ll ever snag another one like her again, so emotions take over and they end of doing stupid shit.
This is why it’s so important for a guy to KNOW that he can get laid and have relationships with attractive girls with relative ease BEFORE getting into a long term relationship, otherwise you end up like Mr. Firestarter.